To control Quick Fields Agent remotely, you’ll need to make sure that Agent is installed on the computer with Quick Fields, and that the Agent Admin Console is installed on the machine you want to administer Agent from.  You’ll also need to ensure that remote administration is turned on, but it sounds like you’ve already done that.  To connect your local machine to the actual Agent installation, you can open the Quick Fields Agent Admin Console and click on “Connect to…”  The default is to connect to “This Computer”, but you’ll just need to select “Remote computer and port” and enter the connection information.

And that’s about all there is to it.  If you’re still unsure about anything, just let us know where you’re struggling.